We are all so different in every manner - So how can we possibly compare ourselves in any rational way? There is no relevant comparisons because it will always be apples to oranges period, or of course apples to pineapples or grapes or berries, see my point! Sure there are concrete comparisons, size, color, etc - but abstractly everyones journey is infinately unique - comparing oneself to another is so irrelevent, such a waste of time.

Most Grownups never really grow up they just get older and find more ways to break the rules. People only truly mature when they start to see others as themselves, others needs and wants as their own. They think - My problems arent over when I get on top of things in my life simply because you have problems and that troubles me and I dearly want to help just as if I had those problems myself - course now having gone through my issues I can better help you in yours - but still your problems are mine, I feel what you feel because you are me and I am you and we are one.

Everyone has beliefs which are simply perspectives so how can I say that anothers beliefs are wrong when I dont have a dam clue as to what they are seeing from thier point of view.